It Got Over

It got over...finally on Friday at exactly 18:55. I was, as usual, sitting with my laptop writing another post and DH came to the room and asked me “So aren’t we going to talk anymore?” and then we talked. We talked, we talked and we talked....

It was not the first of its kind and definitely not the last, but the ice was broken and it was easier for me to express myself without letting my emotions get the better of me. DH did not talk to me earlier as he had wanted us to cool things off before trying to sort out the issue. Anyway, the cold war got over and I am back to my normal self. As a couple who have gotten married a second time, we both carry a lot of emotional wounds and insecurities from our previous relationships and sometimes our expectations of how a relationship has to be are far higher than what we both are capable of giving each other.

It does not matter now about what we argued over or even how we solved it, for the time being we both are still together and tomorrow is another day.