DH and I – I wish we argued, cribbed or fought. But we don’t. Fact is he is a clutter lover and I have obsessive-compulsive spartanism (OCS). I like to have the bare minimum of things and he loves to have all his life possession around him. We both accept the fact, it’s just that we can’t live with each other knowing that fact.
Why is that people think that once you have love, good food and a house – everything is OK between a husband and wife? Why do people think that love and understanding can conquer all – it can’t.
Why can some people turn a blind eye to their spouse’s shortcomings and other’s can’t? Why can some people say Ok that’s it, let’s carry on with life – it’s never going to be all that perfect.
You know what – I have just one bloody life, ONE blooming life. And I will touch 40 next year. So I am NOT willing to compromise, I will not compromise. I am not going to live the next 20 years being suffocated by all this clutter.
I am not sure what I am going to do about it. But till then I am going to whine in here.
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