Saturday, 29 September 2012

What Happened In The Meanwhile......


Over the past one year I saved pots of money.  Frugal I always am, but this is the first time I hoarded money.  I didn't give it away or use it for the house or husband or family or any damn thing.  I put it all in my bank account and kept adding to it. I don’t need no husband’s money to feel rich.  I am rich.  I am capable of making my own money and I can find my own financial security - thank you very much.

My husband is my true love.  Why? I have zero expectations of him and yet I am with him.   One by one I am in the process of breaking down all my self-erected expectations and ideals in a relationship.   DH does not have to be anything or anyone that he is not just to have me in his life.  

I don’t have friends because I don’t try.  These days I just say yes to almost everything and almost everyone.  I am game for a drink, a night out, a walk, a movie, a whatever.  I am no longer afraid of meeting new people and engaging in small talks.  I know I will find a friend; it’s just a matter of time.

I passed my MBA in July.  From next week I will be going for the Japanese Beginners course at SOAS. 

Note to self: Blog more often.

2 comments:

me said...

Congratulations on the MBA! I love the self-empowerment that shouts forth in this post

Childwoman said...

Awesome post! You all the best things. More power to you!