DH

DH and I do not argue.  We never do that; we just keep quiet, we keep quiet for something like three weeks – three weeks is the maximum we can do without talking to each other.  The best part about this type of standoff is that by the end of three weeks one hardly remembers what the whole fuss was about.  I was in a pretty violent relationship before and I prefer this silence – to ponder, to reflect, to forgive, to move on and to join back again.  And I love my husband for giving me that time and space.